Shawna, Will & Alexis 2011

Shawna, Will & Alexis 2011
The 3 of Us

Saturday, September 08, 2012

Saturday September 8th

Shawna is still at home and she has made it very clear that is where she wants to be as long as she has full support for medication administration (all subcutaneous) and general care.  Home care only provides 72 hours of RN care the whole time she is at home, so we are using those hours wisely.  Christine flew in last night and her parents arrive today.  Between Sharon, Christine, myself and her parents, we'll provide her around the clock care for now.  A few very special people have also offered to help, and they will be added to the rotation as we sort things out.  All of this will hopefully be arranged and finalized soon.

I had the night shift last night, and she was relatively comfortable.  She had breakthrough morphine and gravol this morning, but otherwise her scheduled meds kept things under control.  The RN coordinator is there now, sorting out some additional meds and making sure we have what we need.  Christine is there today and Sharon will take the night shift.

Will is scheduled for surgery for his bone flap on Monday and prayerfully all will go well and he'll be discharged home Tuesday.  If Shawna should deteriorate quickly, the surgery can be changed last minute.  Shawna's brother Derek, flew in yesterday from Ontario and has been able to have some quality time with her.

Yesterday a Hospice Calgary counsellor spent the morning with Will and Shawna to make a plan and offer support as they prepared to talk to Alexis.  That conversation was had yesterday after school.  Alexis is doing as well as can be expected.  We had a snuggle on the couch and played a bit of Wii before breakfast.  What an amazing little girl.

They continue to ask that people do not phone the house or text Shawna's cell phone.  The phone continues to ring quite a bit during the day and they would like to minimize noise and disturbance as much as possible.  If you like, post questions on the blog and I will check the posts regularly and someone will respond/answer as soon as we can.

Terri


15 comments:

  1. Thank you so much Terri for providing the updates. It is comforting to know that Shawna is surrounded by so many wonderful, caring people. Please let us know how Will's surgery goes, as we are very concerned about him too. Please give Alexis a hug from us. You are right - she is an amazing little girl.
    Love Maureen, Andrew, Michael and Amy

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  2. Thank you so much for posting updates, Terri. We are thinking of Shawna, Will, Alexis, and all of you there, and praying, around the clock.

    the McInnis family

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  3. Thank you so much for the updates......it is great to know that Shawna is surrounded by angels here on earth and to know that she is so well looked after. Please let her know that her and her family are never far from thoughts and prayers are said daily to ease the struggles that they are enduring.

    Penney Bradley (Carmody) and family

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    1. I would love to come out and help relieve people if that would be helpful. (My mom is at the ready to pinch-hit on parenting duties here and a flight could be booked fairly quickly). I understand that there is probably a fine balance between enough support and too many visitors, but I will stay ready until you let me know. In the meantime we are praying and sending hugs to everybody involved. (613)744-3113
      Emily Beedell and family

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  4. Praying many times throughout the day for all of you. Alexis is always welcome over at our house as well.

    God is with you all. Every moment is a meeting with his presence in our lives and he is carrying all of you through this time. If you can't pray, we will pray for you... for peace, and for any graces you need. Also, we are praying for Will and his surgery in the middle of all of this. Lord, hear our prayer.

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  5. Thank you so much to everyone who is helping Shawna. Please let her know that we are thinking of her, Will, and Alexis in this very hard time.

    Paul, Eva and the kids.

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  6. We are all praying for peace and comfort for you Shawna,as well as for Will and Alexis. It is comforting to know that you have the support of Aunt Linda, Uncle Willie and Derrick, and we are thankful that you are blessed with so many amazing friends. You are an incredible person, Shawna. Please know that though we feel so far away, you are always in our thoughts and prayers.

    Mel, Stu, and Marcus

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  7. We are so thankful that Swana, Alexis and Will have so many caring fiends and family to help out.As always we feel helpless but please know that we would do anything to help out....food, RNs place to sleep etc. Please know we are sending love and prayers for everyone and will be saying special prayers for Shawna and Alexis and Will for his surgery on Monday.

    Love SHER, Brad, Chase, Auntie Merle and Uncle Bob xoxo

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  8. Terri
    We can provide a meal once a week
    Any of the following days tuesday sat or sundays to who needs it.
    403-281-3707 or anne.myers@shaw.ca

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    1. Thanks Anne. Given the roller coaster of the last day, we have changed the schedule a bit. Will be talking to Sharon and Christine about a time for you to come. A meal is welcome anytime. Will touch base soon.
      Terri

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  9. We are from BVCC and deeply interceding for the whole family. Let us know how we can be of help. We can also bring dinner once a week. 403-476-9102 or bev.kevr@gmail.com

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  10. Thinking about you and your family lots-- especially good luck to Will today with his surgery. I am sure he will do well. I am glad you have such a loving family and support network in this difficult time. I can help out with meals/soup/baking. I would just need a day notice. Do not hesitate to call or email. Thank you so much for posting regularly as we are all thinking about your family all the time and like to know how things are going.
    Celine Feagan (from Shawna's work) 403-981-8559, celinefeagan@yahoo.com

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  11. Thinking about the Pyntens today and hoping Will's surgery was smooth and uneventful. Please feel free to put us on the list for bringing meals or baking. You can call me at 403-863-1542 or email me at chandravig@shaw.ca to let me know if you require anything. Alexis is welcome anytime to hang out with my daughters as well. We'd love to have her.

    Chandra

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    1. Thanks Chandra. Will's surgery went well. Home now and with his girls. Do you make soup? Shawna has been enjoying pea soups at lunch. Just a thought. Otherwise any meals are appreciated. There are 2 blue bins on the steps at the front door that we keep cooler packs in. People have been just leaving food in there and we check it throughout the day. I will pass on the offer of play date for Alexis. Thanks so much!
      Terri

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  12. Dear Shawna
    You have always been someone I have admired. Your strength, courage and wonderful personality are truly amazing. I think back to high school and our fun times in the musicals and treasure those moments with you. Know that I am thinking and praying for peace and comfort for you and your beautiful family.

    Love Angie Tester






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